THE THING THAT HAS BEEN NIGGLING YOU FOR YEARS

We all have a secret self that we never show to anybody. Some people are lucky to have an internal dialog that is actually quite pleasant. This is not true of everyone. Some of us have a normal where we berate, undermine and attack ourselves continually. For some of us, living in our own mind is a bit of a torture. There are moments when it can be downright hell. We see that other people don’t think the way we do, but we don;t know why or how.

If this sounds like you, then keep reading to the bottom of the page to find out the resolution to this dilemma.

Does this Sound like YOU?

  • ANXIETY
  • PERFECTIONISM
  • OVER ACHIEVING
  • WORK-A-HOLIC
  • NEVER FEELING SATISFIED
  • NEVER FEELING ‘GOOD ENOUGH’
  • OVER-COMPENSATING FOR SHORTCOMINGS
  • WORKING FOR EVERYONE ELSE’S SATISFACTION
  • NOT BEING ABLE TO ACCEPT THE REWARDS YOURSELF.
Perfectionists Anxiety
Perfectionists Anxiety

SELF-ACKNOWLEDGEMENT AND SELF-APPRECIATION

This is the core of the issue. It is about being able to give the gifts of acknowledgement and appreciation to yourself.

YOU PROBABLY DON;T KNOW HOW TO HUG YOURSELF!

Have you ever found yourself working yourself ragged trying to make things perfect, trying to make everyone else happy?

One of the most common features of this condition is the inability to self-validate. Validation is a resource we don’t know how to make for ourselves. Only too often do we run around like headless chickens seeking validation from others. We perform to an exceptional level in the hope that someone will return validation to us. The funny thing is that they have no idea that is what we’re looking for!!

Perfectionists Anxiety
Perfectionists Anxiety

APRIL REPORTS THESE CHANGES IN HER LIFE AS A RESULT OF WORKING WITH ME

Long Term Direct Benefits

  • Month One:

    • No more guilt and shame from going no contact with my narcissistic/borderline family.

    • Embracing I’m wonderful and “normal” more naturally.

    • More loving towards myself.

    • Spending more time doing things that I love and make me feel wonderful.

    • Faster recovery from disappointing/sad moments.

    • More peaceful, confident and relaxed about my business.

  • Month Two:
    • Not feeling like a victim / trapped in Narcissistic Personality Disorder drama.
    • More empowered, easier to focus on my needs and moving forward.
    • Faster response/more positive and effective recovery time from NPD drama.
    • Handling NPD boss with more solutions / more analytical rather than emotional
    • Increasing love towards myself.
    • More at peace with being separated from my very young siblings who still live with (being abused) by my parents (was able to grieve hard about it last week but feel tremendous love and positivity afterwards – amazing!!!!)
  • Month Three: can’t wait!! 🙂

Short Term Indirect Benefits

  • Creative boost

  • Better sleep

  • Happier

  • My soul just shines for days

  • More confidence and vivacious-ness!!

  • Feel like me!!

Long Term Indirect Benefits

  • Eating better (easier to eliminate processed foods, sugar and meats)

  • Gotten into a fitness/health routine

  • Better relationships (easier to set boundaries, not care how people respond, more interdependent, etc).

  • Easier to enjoy my life and get out of negative mindsets.

  • Easier to visualize and have faith in my ability to manifest.

  • Feel more connected to the world (less “lonely” moments)

  • My brother who I’ve not spoken to in 4 years is establishing contact with me (even apologized for past abuse…what?!?).

There is NO WAY I could get these kinds of results within the same time frame from cognitive therapy and any of the other techniques I do.
April

April

Real Estate Professional

This is definitely the most comprehensive testimonial I have ever had. April is the first person to describe her experience into this level of detail. However, i should say that these results are common. I hear reports like this from clients all the time.

So be aware that this could also happen for you.

 

This is a video from one of my clients. She had a pain body issue that was quite severe. Though I think you’ll see from this video just how powerful these techniques are and how they can work for anyone at all.

I really hope you can see your way clear to working with me and getting results like these for yourself

Get in touch for an obligation free chat and see what this work can do for you